Congratulations my beautiful girl!
Wednesday 15 December 2021
Tuesday 30 November 2021
Our Christmas Advent Activities for 2021
- Christmas tree and decor to go up
- Family Photos by the Christmas Tree
- Christmas Shopping
- Nevaeh and Justine’s Christmas Tree
- Hot Chocolates/Iced Chocolates with Candy Canes
- Christmas Movie night (Home Alone)
- Donate Clothings, toys, bedding etc.
- Create a Christmas wish list
- Christmas Playlist/ Worship songs
- Sleep under the Christmas tree
- Christmas Cards
- BBQ at Lake Creswick with family
- Christmas Movie Night (Elf)
- Family Christmas TikToks
- Family Christmas Poems
- Christmas Shopping
- Christmas Wrapping
- Kirrip Christmas Party/ Simple Christmas Hillsong
- Breakfast for dinner
- Christmas Movie Night (Jingle all the way)
- Gingerbread House Making
- Christmas Stocking Fun
- Christmas Picnic with friends
- Starbucks and Christmas light looking in Werribee
- Christmas dinner with family
As the kids are getting older, gone are the days of Christmas printables and bubble baths! This year we are looking forward to fun with family, friends and each other in some new ways. Saturdays are our most exciting days with Mondays being our Christmas Movie Nights together. I’m really looking forward to a more simple year this year and really just appreciating life and all of those in it.
Monday 29 November 2021
Jiedyn’s 16th
Just a $1400 gaming set up for the child in the house that never asks for anything. Jie has always been so selfless putting everyone else before himself in our home so I thought I’d go above and beyond, digging into my savings to buy him a gaming set up for his 16th birthday! Today was about him and to appreciate all the love and joy he brings to our lives. Having his first drink (with permission) of alcohol, requesting to see his “favourite cousin”, using his ouija board in an abandoned house with friends and staying up late gaming with friends, I’d say he’s had a pretty epic day. Unfortunately there was no birthday cake - his first year without a cake.. but the laughs were a plenty!
Jie with his favourite cousin Jeanette today.
Wednesday 24 November 2021
My New Car
As you have all may have noticed, I’ve been keeping a lot to myself lately and here’s why! I have been saving for a new car, my first 4 Wheel Drive!! Don’t ever allow anyone to ever tell you that you can’t achieve your dreams! Just over 18 years ago I was a drug addict living on the streets.. Today I checked owning a 4WD off my bucket list! My advice to people wanting to achieve their goals in life would be to avoid distractions that can set you back.. learn to say no and put your yourself and your goals first! It’s not selfish, it’s essential in getting the things you want out of life! Bring on new adventures!!
Monday 22 November 2021
The Blur
This weekend just gone was a bit of a blur! We jam packed as much fun into our days as we could.
Friday afternoon we picked Justine and Nevaeh up from school, once home we gave Justine her gifts from us and from her Pop Sam before heading off to the Melton Wave Pool for some fun with friends..
Justine was turning 10 on Sunday so this was our special treat to her for her birthday. We bought her some new bathers and a beach towel for her birthday and swam until closing time! (More photos on my Insta or TikTok @melofbacchus)
On Saturday there was a bit of a sleep in for us all which we all enjoyed. Once everyone was up we adventured down to the new Bacchus Marsh Bakery and chose something savoury and something sweet for brunch.
Saturday we watched the horse racing in between loads of washing, I watched one of my crime investigation shows while Justine and Jie were watching funny YouTube videos and dancing in his room, afterwards David and I knicked down to coles to grab a few things including Justine’s Birthday Cake.
Saturday afternoon David and I put our new greenhouse up. Jie had to help with the roof as David went inside to cook dinner for us all.
As it was nearing 8pm it was time for the most anticipated time of the day! Justine’s birthday cake!
After we sung happy birthday and had a piece of the ice cream cake it was time to take Justine home.
From there David and I took the opportunity to spend some much needed one-on-one time together and so we went to the movies to see Halloween.
Driving home after a scary movie always makes me nervous. I’m a whoose in that way. But it was nice having my man beside me and that my days of going to the movies alone were now over.
Sunday, the boys were up early watching something together. I woke up to David telling me he was leaving to see his daughter. He was meeting his Mum, Uncle, Brother and best friend at his daughters house for her birthday.
Apparently she loved the bear we got for her and the photos of the day looked like she had a wonderful day with her family.
When David got home we went to pick up a rug from a local factory for me to use under the greenhouse then grabbed a bite to eat together.
Sunday arvo the kids helped us put the rug under the greenhouse but Max didn’t make it easy for them. we put the plants into the greenhouse and watered them and the boys played soccer as I went to Wilson’s Hardware to buy more potting mix and seasol.
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Sunday night we ordered in and watched “Tomorrow When the War Began” on the couch together.
Nevaeh video called her friends and was giggling well into the night with them.
So yeah, the weekend was a bit of blur but it was good to just be home, working away and spending time together.
After the movie we gave David’s work Van a wash ready for work today!
He should be home soon..
Wednesday 10 November 2021
100 Questions Answered by my 15yo
What are the different cliques or social groups in your school and which one, if any, are you in?
There's none, everybody hang out with everbody accept for Noyah he has his little group.
Do you have a celebrity crush?
Nup
What is the coolest app that I don’t have on my phone?
Clash Royal
What is the most embarrassing thing that I do?
Feel up Jocks at the supermarket and picks the ones I might like.
Who do you eat lunch with at school?
No one, I don't eat lunch.
How would you describe my parenting style?
Shit.
What bands are you listening to these days?
None.
Can you play me one of their best songs?
No, because I don’t listen to bands.
Who would you say is your best friend right now?
Lincoln
Where would be an awesome place to go for a family vacation?
I dont have a place in mind. Oh, my house.
What do you think of President Trump?
Dumb-bo.
What do you think of my hair style?
Shit.
Did I ever tell you about how I met your (mother, father)?
Yep.. No.. No you didnt.
Who is your favourite and least favourite teacher this year?
Least favourite would be Ms Clancy and the best teacher would be Mr Zhong
Which shows are you watching right now?
Um, Shows? Ugh.. none
Any of those shows you’d recommend for me?
No.
Do you think aliens exist?
Nup. Yes. No.. maybe.
How male or female do you feel inside as you get older?
Sarcams "I feel like this beautiful girl sometimes, it just bursts out.."
Is there anything you would like to learn how to do?
Nup.. Not that I can think of..
Have there been any books that you had to read this year that you really liked?
Nup, I dont read.
How would you describe your personality?
Different, unique.
How would you describe my personality (or the other parent)?
Gross and unique and different.
Is bullying a problem at your school?
Nope.
Is drug and alcohol use a big thing at your school?
No.
What is the one thing you don’t know about me that you want to know?
Nothing.
What are some of the first things that you remember?
When we were using the long boards for the first time.
Which holidays do you really like and why?
School Holidays because we get a bunch of days off.
Which holiday do you wish never existed?
Australia Day. Fuck Australia Day.
What look are your going for when you get dressed?
Um, me.
How long do you want to live?
Oh. Um. Until I'm 18 and then I can be forever 18, immature and haunt Mum.
What would you say were the most important moments of your life so far?
When I was born.
What would you wish I might do differently as a parent?
Discipline Nevaeh Properly.
If you could someday drive any car or truck you want, what would it be?
Lamborghini or Ferrari
Do you believe in God?
I dont know.
What would you say are your all-time favorite movies so far?
Um, Scary Movie.
What do you wish you were more motivated to do?
Workout
When you get older, will you vote as a Labour or Liberal?
Whats that?
Are there any quotes from movies, songs, or books that you’ve heard and really like?
Nup, I dont give a shit about quotes.
Are there parts of your body that you really like or dislike?
I like my fat and long toes and my big massive hands. What I don't like is my beard, my moustach and my arm pits.
Do you think our family has enough money?
No
What were the most memorable family trips we’ve taken so far?
Uh, Luna Park and Cairns
Which specific memories stand out from them?
Luna park, the rides and Cairns, the bat shit.
What do you do and think when you see a homeless person?
I think, don't come towards me if I don't have any money, and if i do have some money I'd give him some cash. And do what Mum said, if he starts talking I'd say "okay, see ya mate!"
Do you know anyone who you would say has an ideal marriage or relationship?
Nope.
How do you think the world will eventually end?
Global Warming
What was the funniest thing that happened today?
I said Hi to Lincoln's Mum and she said "Hi son" when she was dropping Maccas off for him. And then I waved "Bye Mum!"
What is the best and worst food that your school cafeteria serves?
I don't go there, I've never been there.
Do you ever feel jealous about the family of any of your friends?
No.
Which teacher at our school is the scariest?
None of them are scary..
Do you think we treat you and your siblings fairly?
Nup, I think we deserve pay-days for doing chores otherwise its just child abuse.
Can you teach me how to text faster?
Nup, I probably text slower than you do. People make fun of how slow I text.
Are there any celebrities that people say you look like?
Ronald McDonald and who's that lady with orange hair? Pauline Hanson.
Which songs have been stuck in your head?
"I'm Blue, dabadeedabadie.." and "The nutbush, oh, the nutbush" and "The highway from hell" and "West Virginia"
What bumper stickers have you seen that you really like?
I dont know, nothing really stands out.
Do you think millennials are really that different from other generations?
Yeah.
What are the best and worst things about having a smartphone?
Um, the best games, socialize and search anything up on google and the worst is I dont really have any bads..
What do you like to watch on YouTube?
Everything, whatevers in my recommended and CoryXKenshin
Do you like your voice?
Nope.
Do you think you want to get married one day?
Yep
How many kids, if any, do you think you might want some day?
Two
What kind of a parent do you think you will be?
Lenient
If we could move to a different neighbourhood or part of town, would you want to go?
Depends on where it is.
How gross are your school bathrooms?
I dont go there, thats how gross!
What thing about our house/apartment irritates you the most?
Bugs.
Are you looking forward to being an adult?
No
If you were allowed to get a tattoo, what would you get?
A smile on my hand
Do you think adults praise kids too much or not enough?
Too much
Do all these school shootings in the news make you feel unsafe at school?
No
What’s the one thing adults don’t get about teenagers?
Probably nothing because you've been a teeanger too. Maybe social life is a bit different to yours.
What is your favourite snack food?
Cookies
What should be the name of your generation?
The Dumb Kids
What do you think is the best number of children to have?
2
If you wanted to have kids, what would you want to name them?
I don't know, I'd probably go with whatever their Mum wanted.
Are you more of a dog or cat person?
Cat
How’s your love life?
Stable
Do you have any enemies?
Nup
What would you do with a million (or billion) dollars?
Id have to think about it.
Do you think teens have it easier or tougher compared to my generation?
Probably easier.
What was the best part of your day today?
Seeing Kira
What was the worst part of your day today?
Not talking to Kira
Where’s the first place you would want to go after getting your driver’s license?
McDonalds Drive Through
Do you agree with the current legal age for drinking, smoking, and voting?
Agh, sure. I dont really give a shit.
Did I ever tell you about my prom experiences?
No
Are you currently trying to lose or gain weight right now?
Gain
If two people like each other romantically, do you think someone still should ask before trying to kiss them?
Yep.
How tall would you like to be, if you could choose?
As tall as my wife.
Do kids your age still care about professional sports?
Yeah
What do you think has been the hardest thing you have ever done?
Ride a bike
What do you think the fourth dimension is?
ahh.. no idea.
What is the best (non-profanity) comeback to say to a bully?
Mate, get a life.
Is it more awkward to address adults as Mr./Ms. or to use their first names?
No I even call the office ladies Mrs.
If we had more money, how would you use it?
I'd save it
Do you wish we had pushed you harder or less hard to keep doing Scouts and Soccer?
No, I don't really care about them. They were just things I wanted to try out.
Are you satisfied with the number of friends that you have and quality of those friendships?
Sure, accept for Kira, I think we need more than a little friendship.
Do you think marijuana should be legal for people after a certain age?
I think they should have never made it.
If you had to be a mythical creature, what would you be?
A Dragon.
What could I do to help you feel more supported?
Um, nothing.
What are the big things being talked about at school?
Not really anything.
What were some of best holiday or birthday presents you ever received?
My PC setup
What’s a fun thing that we could do together?
Luna Park.
Tuesday 9 November 2021
100 Questions Answered by my 12yo
What are the different cliques or social groups in your school and which one, if any, are you in?
Some basketball boys, the weirdos and then there is like the trouble makers. I’m in the weirdos group probably.
Do you have a celebrity crush?
No.
What is the coolest app that I don’t have on my phone?
Um, I don’t know, probably gacha life or Capcut.
What is the most embarrassing thing that I do?
Embarrass me, like embarrass me all the time in front of friends (laughing).
Who do you eat lunch with at school?
Zahra, Darley and sometimes Zoe.
How would you describe my parenting style?
Kinda strict also like you kinda let us off the hook sometimes so it’s more fun then strict and it matures us and I like it.
What bands are you listening to these days?
I don’t really listen to bands.
Can you play me one of their best songs?
No, because I don’t listen to bands.
Who would you say is your best friend right now?
Zahra.
Where would be an awesome place to go for a family vacation?
Gold Coast
What do you think of President Trump?
I hate him, he is racist.
What do you think of my hair style?
Ugly, one of a kind (laughing)
Did I ever tell you about how I met your (mother, father)?
Yeah but I can’t remember.
Who is your favourite and least favourite teacher this year?
My favorite teacher is probably Mr T and my least favourite is Ms Fitzimonds
Which shows are you watching right now?
Work It and I just finished RiverDale and On my Block
Any of those shows you’d recommend for me?
On my block
Do you think aliens exist?
No.
How male or female do you feel inside as you get older?
Female.
Is there anything you would like to learn how to do?
No.
Have there been any books that you had to read this year that you really liked?
No.
How would you describe your personality?
Fun, sometimes moody and probably like hypo and silly
How would you describe my personality (or the other parent)?
Independent, caring, you are very thoughtful because you put others first.
Is bullying a problem at your school?
Yes. But no, not a big problem.. but sometimes.
Is drug and alcohol use a big thing at your school?
No.
What is the one thing you don’t know about me that you want to know?
How did you cope when you were growing up.
What are some of the first things that you remember?
In autumn stepping on leaves when I was young.
Which holidays do you really like and why?
School holidays because I don’t have to go to school and Christmas holidays so I get presents and see family.
Which holiday do you wish never existed?
Easter because it makes me fat because of the chocolate. It’s good but I don’t like it at the same time.
What look are your going for when you get dressed?
Probably just um, it’s kind of like tomboy and girly at the same time.
How long do you want to live?
Until I am old enough to the point I want to die.
What would you say were the most important moments of your life so far?
Um, I really don’t know.
What would you wish I might do differently as a parent?
Not be so overprotective.
If you could someday drive any car or truck you want, what would it be?
A turbo diesel FWD thing
Do you believe in God?
Yes
What would you say are your all-time favorite movies so far?
Dirty Dancing, Rio, Kissing Booth.
What do you wish you were more motivated to do?
Lose weight
When you get older, will you vote as a Labour or Liberal?
Never heard of them
Are there any quotes from movies, songs, or books that you’ve heard and really like?
No
Are there parts of your body that you really like or dislike?
The parts of my body that I really dislike are my stomach and chin but the part I do like are my eyes and my legs
Do you think our family has enough money?
No
What were the most memorable family trips we’ve taken so far?
The one to Portland with Pop, the one to Cairns with you, me and Jie. And the one to inverloch with the cousins.
Which specific memories stand out from them?
Portland - Seal taking our fish when we would try and reel it in
Cairns - When we met our family at the family reunion
Inverloch - Posing on the rocks taking photos near the Rockpools
What do you do and think when you see a homeless person?
I would probably go over to them and see if they were okay and if I had money I’d get them some food
Do you know anyone who you would say has an ideal marriage or relationship?
No.
How do you think the world will eventually end?
Zombie Apocalypse
What was the funniest thing that happened today?
We were um, in class and Evie was doing bodmas and I made a very long equation and Evie said “why is it so long” and I said “that’s what she said..” and then we both cracked up laughing!
What is the best and worst food that your school cafeteria serves?
Best would be snowcones and the worst is probably the hot chocolates
Do you ever feel jealous about the family of any of your friends?
Yes
Which teacher at our school is the scariest?
Ms Fitzimonds or Mrs Muller
Do you think we treat you and your siblings fairly?
Yeah, I guess
Can you teach me how to text faster?
Can YOU teach ME how to text faster?
Are there any celebrities that people say you look like?
No
Which songs have been stuck in your head?
Heaven by Kane Brown and also You Broke me First by Tate Ray
What bumper stickers have you seen that you really like?
Mums ones, all of mums except the tiger one
Do you think millennials are really that different from other generations?
Yes
What are the best and worst things about having a smartphone?
Um, the best is to if something happens you can call the police or parents or something and the worst is you get addicted and stare at it all day long
What do you like to watch on YouTube?
Um, unspeakable, gacha life, asmr
Do you like your voice?
No
Do you think you want to get married one day?
No
How many kids, if any, do you think you might want some day?
Two like Mum
What kind of a parent do you think you will be?
A bossy bitch but still fun
If we could move to a different neighbourhood or part of town, would you want to go?
Up near hillview
How gross are your school bathrooms?
Not even that gross but a 10 out of 10
What thing about our house/apartment irritates you the most?
The mess and stuff everywhere
Are you looking forward to being an adult?
Nup
If you were allowed to get a tattoo, what would you get?
My families names on my arm
Do you think adults praise kids too much or not enough?
Too much
Do all these school shootings in the news make you feel unsafe at school?
No
What’s the one thing adults don’t get about teenagers?
That like just because we say we’re okay sometimes it doesn’t mean we actually are
What is your favourite snack food?
M&Ms
What should be the name of your generation?
Eshay bah or Sussy Bakas
What do you think is the best number of children to have?
Is probably 2
If you wanted to have kids, what would you want to name them?
Um Johnathan and Barry
Are you more of a dog or cat person?
Dog.. woof!
How’s your love life?
Non existent
Do you have any enemies?
Amara, Saige, Millie, Marley, Bailey, Ella, Angelina.. and that’s all can say right now but if you wanna sit here all night I can say more
What would you do with a million (or billion) dollars?
Spend $500,000 on a homeless shelter and spend the rest on my family and myself and maybe get a new dog. I’d be drinkin boba for days I mean years!!
Do you think teens have it easier or tougher compared to my generation?
Tougher
What was the best part of your day today?
Talking to Jesse and doing Math with Mr T
What was the worst part of your day today?
Um, getting annoyed by Sean all day
Where’s the first place you would want to go after getting your driver’s license?
Darwin
Do you agree with the current legal age for drinking, smoking, and voting?
No, I think it should be 20yo
Did I ever tell you about my prom experiences?
No because you didn’t go to prom
Are you currently trying to lose or gain weight right now?
Lose
If two people like each other romantically, do you think someone still should ask before trying to kiss them?
No just full go for it and make out!
How tall would you like to be, if you could choose?
Average enough to wear heels and not be the tallest girl in the room
Do kids your age still care about professional sports?
Yes
What do you think has been the hardest thing you have ever done?
Be able to handle a new person in my Mums life
What do you think the fourth dimension is?
Dunno
What is the best (non-profanity) comeback to say to a bully?
I can change my weight but you can’t change your face!
Is it more awkward to address adults as Mr./Ms. or to use their first names?
Yes
If we had more money, how would you use it?
I would get faster internet and a bigger house
Do you wish we had pushed you harder or less hard to keep doing football?
Yeah I kinda wanted to do football but after janai quit I stopped going
Are you satisfied with the number of friends that you have and quality of those friendships?
No I kind of just have one real friend
Do you think marijuana should be legal for people after a certain age?
Yes
If you had to be a mythical creature, what would you be?
A four tailed white fox
What could I do to help you feel more supported?
Eat less junk food
What are the big things being talked about at school?
Um, manners and pushing outselves more and being good role models for the younger grades
What were some of best holiday or birthday presents you ever received?
That big Dog and the Massive bear
What’s a fun thing that we could do together?
Go on a girls day, get our nails done and our hair and all of that..
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